Maybe try Brauer's Teething Relief if you are worried about giving her nurofen all the time. It's homeopathic so unlike nurofen/panadol you can use it repeatedly without ill effects (following the directions of course!). I have a bottle here for DD and used it a few times but then I just kept forgetting..lol. But you give 4 doses to them every half hour (so 4 doses in 2 hours) and then every 4 hours as needed. So you could start giving it at lunch time/mid afternoon so you have say 6 hours before bedtime and then give a dose at bedtime to get her through the night. IDK if that would help but I guess anything is worth a try!